RESOURCES FOR THE MODERN YOGI

Standing Still

Posted by: on Dec 28, 2015 | 3 Comments
Standing Still
image from @evaerdmannphotographer

“One hundred actions are not worth as much as one moment of stillness.”
-Wang Xiangzhai

Standing still is perhaps the most contradictory activity in which we can engage.  While we are seemingly doing “nothing,” in fact we are challenging ourselves both physically and mentally, using every muscle in our bodies, strong, deliberate breath and an iron willed focus.

All to do that which our culture regards with little respect.

To many, to stand still is to stagnate. To lose momentum. Not to keep up with progress.

Many people go as far to consider standing still as falling behind.

Yet standing still has taught me valuable lessons.  It allows me to be inside myself.  Instead of always wanting to be the busy one, the active one, the catalyst, standing still allows me to watch. When I stand still and observe,  the world looks different to me. Or maybe it doesn’t LOOK different, maybe its just that I am  LOOKING at it differently.

Recently I was running late and was going to blow a date with an acquaintance—one of those ”lets get coffee sometime” meetings.  Instead, I decided to just go, but only because I was in the neighborhood of the coffee shop.

As soon as I sat down I said, “I have to go in a minute.  Sorry.  I don’t really have time to talk too long.”

She said, “Oh, then why don’t you leave now and we reschedule?  We wont have a good conversation if you’re preoccupied with having to leave.”

I took my coat off, took my phone off the table, turned it off, put it in my purse and thanked her.  We proceeded to talk  for an hour and a half, and I felt calm, content and rooted. It was a feeling of being connected to the world as opposed to being some sort of unguided missile flying out into the stratosphere.

I realized that while I was busy thinking I was  running late, I was actually  running PAST life—closing myself to new experiences while tricking myself into thinking I was in constant FORWARD momentum—believing I was moving  TOWARD new experiences while missing them altogether.

This is new to me. I am listening to quiet and it doesn’t sound awful – just different.

When I am standing still I can listen. When I am talking and planning my next clever response, I cannot.

When I can see and hear, I can learn new things. I can change. I can grow. Perhaps that is why trees are so big.  They stand still and witness the seasons, the rain, the sunshine, the animals in their cycles.  They gather up strength from the earth below. From one deep place they reach into the air—rooted yet light.

They stand still but they don’t stay the same. Running around all the time allows me to stay the same because nothing has the time to change me.
Constant activity does not allow us the opportunity to see things as they are…the world is a blur of movement instead of a place of peace, stillness observation and contemplation.

Is it possible that  being patient and gathering our energy allows us to do what we THINK running around trying to change things will achieve? How can we change what we cannot really see or understand because we are too busy running past it to get to the next IT?

Too often we believe that what needs change is the world around us. In some ways, it seems easier to change the OUTSIDE world than to change ourselves.

Ironically, coincidentally, cosmically, as I have been challenging myself to stand still and listen, today, I was able to HEAR my teacher, Colleen Saidman. She said what I probably would never even have registered two weeks ago, because I would have been fidgeting around wondering if I should go to a movie after class or stay home and do the laundry.

“We’re all exhausted from running around. But what are we running from? What are we running TO?” Then she quoted Mr. Iyengar: “Intimacy with another is only possible when we are first able to be intimate with ourselves. And the only way that can happen is if we take the time to go INSIDE instead of always living on the OUTSIDE.”

On this late winter day I thought there might be something going on here that is not only a philosophical truth, but also a practical one.

Face it– it’s cold OUTSIDE.  Its warm INSIDE.

I think I’ll go there and stand still a while.

 

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3 Comments

  1. Erika
    March 12, 2015

    Beautifully said. Stillness has always brought me clarity. Thank you for sharing Gailanne.

  2. Wendy May Lussier
    March 18, 2015

    Wise words from a wise lady. Just what I needed today. Thanks Gailanne!

  3. Kelly Phillips
    March 28, 2015

    What a wonderful reminder to live in the moment. #contentment